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i closed last nite at fairweather..and didn't get home until 10:30ish. i then had to work at choices this morning at 8 which was bruuuuuuuutal. the earlier you start the earlier you end..which is great...but man, i caaaaaan't do mornings. aiyaaaaah.

as i was leaving work i was totally wiped, but then..........outta no where.........ben showed up!!! he drove over JUST to see me =D =D =D ! I was so happy. I ran up behind him and like practically jumped on his back lol. and he was like, there you are beautiful. and he just hugged me and man...this boy hugs like no other. he's so cuddly and *le sigh*

you guys, he treats me SO WELL. he's so considerate, thoughtful, complimentive, fun, sexy,...the list is endless. i used to have issues with the age thing..but honestly,..i don't notice it at all anymore. he even admitted that it used to bother him a wee bit...but that he realizes why it hasn't been a big deal at all---because, (in his words)...the maturity levels actually match this way. lolololol --->SO TRUE. haha.

when i went on that first date with him...i had no idea what would come of it. i wasnt looking for a relationship, infact, i was avoiding them at all costs. but he just kinda showed up..and it's been the best thing i've had in my life for a long time. i really like the person i am when i'm with him. i'm confident and able to be all that i am capable of being. and i love it.

ben is committed. i had thought he would just be another fling at first if i persued him at all...but he isn't going anywhere. he's already set on being with me when i return from my trip. i didn't understand why..but this is what he said:
"why wouldn't i stick around,..you're the girl i've been looking for for a long time. i have no reason to look around when i've already found what i want in you."

awwwwww....and ladies...he's SUCH a romantic. like...he knows how to treat a woman. enough said?

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jaxiemonster
Nov. 27th, 2005 07:09 am (UTC)
I so happy for you!!!!
no more aladdin...the those other two, whatever their names were.
shelaysinlies
Nov. 27th, 2005 07:24 am (UTC)
Awww! =)
Did you ever ask him about that night and what he thought of me? HAHAHAH. I can totally see him being like, "She's................ nice." Hahahahaha. He thinks I'm psycho. Our convo was sooo awkward!!! haha. Oh well. So, I guess he's joining our date on New Years, eh??
cupcakecalamity
Nov. 27th, 2005 08:26 am (UTC)
Ohhhh that's so beautifullll
jaxiemonster
Nov. 27th, 2005 08:37 am (UTC)
Jealous!
jayce11
Nov. 27th, 2005 09:53 pm (UTC)
omg mel i'm so happy for u:):):) yayyyyyyyyyy for awesome boys!
theteenybopper
Nov. 28th, 2005 02:09 am (UTC)
wow, that's great, mel!
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